Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Going Back To Him
A lot of people are more concerned with “how to get your ex boyfriend back” and very few have actually taken the time to assess the situation, strategically analyze the pre-events and the malfunctions that have plagued you daily while you were with your ex boyfriend. No one knows if you were having the time of your life and carelessly mismanaged a very simple situation leading to the termination of the relationship, or that the guy in question was a no-good smooth operator who was literally killing you softly and you just didn’t have the heart to let go because you had a few thing to gain from the relationship, which was anything but happiness.
No one knows any of this information except you so it is imperative to put your happiness, safety and comfort first before any other thing. If upon deep thought and reminiscence, you have decided that he is best for you and you want him back, after considering other possible potentials of course, you have truly decided then it is time to open up history books again and see what can be used in your favor.
The best and most possible way to get your ex boyfriend back is to stay confident and positive. Learn to compromise and make little sacrifices, be sensitive to his needs as well and show interest at things that concern him, and most importantly be spontaneous! A lot of relationships quit because that fire has been completely doused. There is no spontaneity, no challenge and nothing to look forward to. Recreate yourself, go out of your way to do things that are unusual, change your looks and be the best of yourself. That thing that attracted him to you initially will bring him back to you.